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Getting help now

If you're struggling right now, you don't have to wait for an appointment. Here's who you can contact, any time of day or night.

Urgent support · Southend and south Essex

I'm not a crisis service, and I can't always reply straight away. If you need help urgently, please use one of the services below.

If someone's life is at risk

Call 999 or go to your nearest A&E. The nearest is Southend University Hospital, Prittlewell Chase, Westcliff-on-Sea, SS0 0RY.

Urgent support, any time

Call 111 and choose the mental health option. Free, 24 hours a day, for adults in Essex. You can call for yourself or for someone else.

NHS 111, mental health option

Text SHOUT to 85258 for free, confidential text support, 24 hours a day. If you're under 19, text YM to 85258.

Shout

Call free on 116 123, any time, day or night. Or email jo@samaritans.org.

Samaritans

Call 0800 58 58 58, 5pm to midnight, every day. Free and confidential, for anyone who's struggling.

CALM

Local support in Southend and south Essex

NHS Talking Therapies: Therapy For You

Free NHS talking therapy for adults in Southend, Castle Point and Rochford. You can refer yourself.

South East and Central Essex Mind

Counselling, support and advice in Southend and the surrounding area. Monday to Friday, 9am to 5pm.

STARS (drug and alcohol support, Southend)

Free support for adults in Southend with drug or alcohol use, and for people affected by someone else's use.

Open Road (drug and alcohol support, Essex)

Free support for adults across Essex, including Castle Point and Rochford.

Your GP

Ask for an urgent appointment, or ask your surgery about local support.

If you're worried about someone else

If you're worried about someone else, you can call 111 or Samaritans on their behalf. If they're in immediate danger, call 999.

A one-page list to keep on the fridge or in your bag

Details checked October 2026. Services sometimes change their numbers or hours, so please check before you call.

More free resources

A simple exercise that uses your senses to bring you back to the present when anxiety or panic takes hold.

The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique

About 2 minutes · Printable

A steady four-count breathing pattern that helps calm your body when you're anxious or stressed.

Box breathing

About 4 minutes · Printable

Thought record worksheet

A worksheet to help you notice anxious or self-critical thoughts and find a kinder, more balanced view.

10 to 15 minutes · Printable worksheet

You don't have to work through it alone

If you'd like to talk things through with someone, your first 50-minute session is on me, in person in Leigh-on-Sea, online or by phone.

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